Frequently Asked Questions 🤍
Everything you may wish to know before arranging time with Alessia Vale
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Q: How do I make a booking?
Please send a polite SMS or email only — never via social media or third-party apps.
Include the following details in your first message:
• Your full name
• City & preferred day/time
• Duration and experience (Velvet Touch, Scarlet Heat, or Obsidian Desire)
• Incall or outcall preference
Outcalls require a valid photo ID for verification. Alessia does not respond to incomplete, vague, or disrespectful messages.
Only contact when you are ready to confirm your booking with a deposit.
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Q: Why is a deposit required?
Deposits confirm commitment and ensure Alessia’s time is reserved exclusively for you.
They are a standard business requirement and must be paid within one hour of confirming your booking details.
No deposit = no booking.
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Q: Are deposits refundable or transferable?
Deposits are non-refundable if you cancel, change your mind, or fail to attend.
They may be transferred to a future Melbourne booking (minimum 48 hrs notice) at Alessia’s discretion.
For tour bookings, deposits are strictly non-refundable and non-transferable.
Each tour requires significant preparation — including pre-booked accommodation, flights, and time set aside exclusively for you — making rescheduling rarely possible.
If for some reason I require to cancel or reschedule, a full refund will be offered, payable within 72 hours. A rescheduled time will also be offered to new tour dates.
Please ensure your availability before confirming.
All deposits and balances must clear before your meeting (allow up to 72 hrs for international transfers).
Deposits are most easily made via BeemIt or PayID.
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Q: How do I know my information is safe?
Alessia personally manages every aspect of her business — there are no agencies, assistants, or third-parties.
All communications and personal details are stored securely on password- and Face ID-protected devices.
Confidentiality is absolute. Alessia has shared experiences with high-profile, corporate, and international clientele and upholds complete discretion.
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Q: What screening is required?
Discretion, safety, and peace of mind are essential for both of us.
When first reaching out, please provide:
• Full name
• Valid photo ID for outcalls (with name, photo, and address visible)
• City, preferred date & time, and desired duration
• The experience you wish to share (Velvet Touch, Scarlet Heat, Obsidian Desire)
• Incall or outcall (with hotel screenshot for outcalls)
• Where you discovered Alessia’s profile
Screening is the foundation of the trust and discretion extended to you. Without these details, your enquiry cannot proceed.
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Q: Can I send a photo of myself?
Identification may be requested for verification, particularly for outcalls or short-notice arrangements.
Unsolicited explicit photos will result in an immediate block. Respect and professionalism are essential.
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Q: Does Alessia offer Fly Me To You (FMTY) experiences?
Yes — Alessia offers bespoke Fly Me To You engagements for discerning gentlemen who value privacy, elegance, and indulgence.
Essentials
• Australia / New Zealand: Overnight minimum
• International (Asia, UK, Europe, Middle East, Americas): Two-night minimum
• Notice required:
– Domestic 48 hrs • NZ / Asia-Pacific 7 days • Long-haul 14 days
• Deposit: 50 % (non-refundable) to confirm booking
• Balance: Due 7 days before travel (or on arrival for domestic)
• Screening & ID: Mandatory prior to confirmation
• Travel & Accommodation: 5-star hotels only (approved Airbnbs for domestic possible)
• Flights: Business or first class for international journeys
• Expenses: All travel, accommodation & transfers covered by you
• Private Room: Essential for overnights (6 hrs uninterrupted sleep)
• Extended Bookings: Include 3–4 hrs daily personal time for well-being and balance
FMTY engagements are reserved for respectful, established clients ready to proceed with deposit and arrangements.
For inclusions, rates, and tailored packages, please visit the Fly Me To You page.
With Alessia, distance is never a barrier — only an invitation.
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Q: Does Alessia tour regularly?
Alessia tours selectively across Australia and internationally.
Her schedule is announced in advance, with limited availability in each destination.
Pre-booking and deposits are essential to secure your place.
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Q: What if I wish to film or capture our time together?
Filming is available by prior arrangement only, at an additional cost.
All filming is for personal use only, under clear mutual consent and non-disclosure terms.
Any unauthorised recording or breach of privacy will end the booking immediately.
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Q: Does Alessia offer social or dinner dates?
Yes. Alessia adores fine dining, elegant evenings, and the art of genuine connection.
Dinner and social dates allow time to savour conversation, chemistry, and connection before returning to the privacy of your suite — or to simply enjoy one another’s company over wine and laughter.
She delights in curating evenings that blend refinement with seduction — whether that’s a candlelit dinner, theatre night, or a luxurious long lunch where time quietly disappears.
Each experience is unhurried, elegant, and entirely tailored to your preferences.
For more details and extended packages, please visit the Dinner Date page.
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Q: Does Alessia cater to fantasies or roleplay?
Within her clearly defined boundaries, Alessia enjoys exploring mutual desire — from playful teasing to more intense experiences.
All preferences must be discussed at the time of enquiry.
She does not engage in erotic chat or fantasy writing outside confirmed bookings.
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Q: How will Alessia present herself on a social date?
Expect timeless elegance — luxury fabrics, tailored silhouettes, and subtle designer accents.
She adapts effortlessly to any setting with notice.
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Q: Is Alessia available to see clients with disabilities or special requirements?
Absolutely. Alessia warmly welcomes all respectful gentlemen.
Accessibility or mobility needs can be discussed in advance to ensure comfort and ease.
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Q: Will Alessia see clients outside of professional engagements?
No. Alessia’s personal and professional lives remain separate.
Any attempt to extend time beyond a booking or seek unpaid contact will result in an immediate end to communication.
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Q: Who does Alessia not see?
Alessia does not see those currently or previously involved with other providers or industry colleagues.
Professional integrity and privacy are always prioritised.
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Q: Can I discuss other companions or gossip?
No. Alessia does not engage in gossip or discussions about others.
Discretion, respect, and professionalism are non-negotiable.
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Q: What happens if my partner contacts Alessia?
If contacted by a third party (partner, spouse, or friend), Alessia will immediately block and disengage.
Personal boundaries are absolute.
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Meetings
Time with Alessia is not transactional — it is an experience.
She does not offer a checklist of services; rather, an atmosphere where intimacy, connection, and indulgence unfold naturally.
Requests that cross her boundaries (including natural services) will bring the booking to an immediate close without refund.
Outcalls are available exclusively to 5-star hotels.
Private residences are not accepted.
Select Airbnbs may be considered for domestic bookings only if personally approved and meeting her standards of safety, privacy, and comfort.
All accommodation is to be arranged and covered by you.
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Extended Time
Alessia adores extended engagements — evenings that begin with a lingering dinner, an overnight escape, or entire days where time dissolves.
If a booking ends early by your choice, or if boundaries are breached, the remainder of time and all funds are void.
No refunds or credits apply.
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Expectations
Alessia’s consideration reflects her standard of refinement, discretion, and care.
She does not “date” outside professional arrangements — her personal life remains her own, and she expects the same privacy from you.
Should respect or privacy be compromised, the booking will end immediately, and future contact will cease.
These boundaries are not barriers — they are the framework that allows Alessia to give you the very best of herself: fully present, deeply engaged, and entirely yours.
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Images
Every image you see of Alessia is captured professionally, with only minimal retouching.
Authenticity is paramount — what you see is who you meet: poised, refined, and genuine.
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Final Note
Time with Alessia is never ordinary. It is designed to be indulgent, intoxicating, and unforgettable.
When you approach with respect, provide the details requested, and honour her boundaries, you unlock something rare — a connection that feels effortless, natural, and entirely exclusive.
With trust and discretion at the core, what you create together will not simply be a meeting, but a memory that lingers long after.
🤍 Discretion. Decorum. Desire — beautifully refined.